All Tied Up

I love bondage. Let's just get that out there. It's my absolute number one kink. Bondage being the B in BDSM, it is often the starting point for couples experimenting with kinkier sexual pursuits.  There is nothing quite as exciting as being helpless at someone else's sexual mercy, or having the object of your...

For One Night Only!

One night stands have a bad rep. Despite the sexual evolution that is happening in this generation there still appears to be a degree of contempt for the one night hook up. Even the language is judging you as you do the "walk of shame" home in last night's clothes. What an utter crock....

Living On The Edge

Safe, Sane And Consensual is the philosophy covering most BDSM practices. The principles being to ensure that as much risk of danger has been minimised from your play and the fear of actual long-term damage or harm is removed, making it safe. Approaching your play with a common sense mindset, discussing and planning activities...

Sexual Dominance Is Not Abuse

Dominant/submissive relationships hit the mainstream mentality in a huge way in recent years due to the success of 50 Shades of Grey. For some people this glimpse into the mindset of a BDSM relationship was shocking. For others arousing, possibly sparking new interests they didn't know they had. I know within the BDSM community 50...

A Banquet For The Senses

Sex is such a rush if it's done well. To be fair even done badly it's still one of my favourite things. Sex is literally a banquet for the senses, I've been trying to work out which sense is more important to me in my play time. They are all vital and play their...